Before i start off on today's article... a glass of chilled 'Kwai Feh' Lychee Liqueur will make my day tonight.

Back to Today's topic, "the 'Art' of Speaking and Communication". Tonight I would like to emphasize on how important and impact of the 'Art' of Speaking and Communication.

You won't like the feeling of the people out there saying that, 'You crazy bum, please get away from me and save my day!'. Aren't you? So, please be considerate and 'think' before you talk.

Listen here.

How? Sometimes when a person that chatting with you, he doesn't like to hear certain things or conflicts that you mentioning... Then try not to say it at all and feel it with your sense.

Common mistake? Some people like to use the word, - 'WE' when chatting. However, try not to use the word 'WE' when the individual are talking to another individual (especially the chat topic has NO RELEVANT with the other party). When people talking to you, is referring to you and NOT referring to 'all of you'. So, don't say 'WE' because people are not interested to know anything more.

Whenever speaking! - try to emphasize logic, reasoning, and evidence, because human are emotional beings. By saying wrong things, people will be either laughing it up or annoyed by your words.

Question and Answers? When person query is raised, try to answer appropriately and DO NOT PRETEND not aware of the question and try to skip it. Or... DO NOT PRETEND to be smart enough to simply answer the query.

Tips? Stay calm and be confidence when talking! Smart is good enough but NOT PRETENDING to be Smart.